Who is a mature man? That’s quite an easy question which also has a straight forward answer, well, a mature man can be seen as one who’s fully developed in terms of appearance, behavior and in thinking, in this case, thinking Is the most important word to look out for.
A man starts to leave his old life behind as soon as he becomes mature enough, old life like the usual teenage thinking, having a lot of hangovers and fewer responsibilities, in turn for this maturity, he begins to see life from a different direction, with little or no hangovers and more responsibilities, working towards getting more results and so on. Being more mature can help with moving up a man’s career life or settling down.
Here are a list of 6 things men that are mature enough don’t do, scroll down to see if you are truly one.
1. THEY DON’T TRY TO PLEASE EVRYONE.
When a man is much younger, he tries to please all his friends, even if he doesn’t really have what he needs to please those friends, he goes all out of his way to please them, why? Because he certainly doesn’t want to appear as “that guy who can’t make things happen”, but once he becomes mature enough to know that in life, you please yourself first, he begins to adjust to the reality of life. In essence, a mature man knows when it’s time to socialize and when it’s time to save up.
2. THEY DO NOT DODGE FROM DIFFICULT SITUATIONS.
When an immature man is faced with difficult situations, the only thoughts that run through his mind would be “run away, better dodge this one” and all that. He tends to see a difficult situation as a reason to run away, when things appear not to be going well, immature men do not stay to fight, they zoom off, looking for where things are much easier, but when a mature man is faced with with difficult situations, he fights his way through it, he knows that even if he decides to run away today, he’ll still find that situation tomorrow waiting to be solved.
mature men realize that life isn’t always perfect and they fight to make sure that there are no such issues that could come up later in life.
3. THEY DON’T MAKE CONFRONTATIONS WITH ANGER.
some immature men are known for solving issues with violence and anger, when a man gets angry, the only solution that would run through his mind is to solve whatever situation he’s faced with in anger. A mature mam realizes that violence and anger do not solve problems, rather they create more and worsen the present ones. They realize that there are consequences when they become angry. Words are more effective.
4. THEY DON’T AVOID THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES.
Surely, when a man grows older, his responsibilities increase as well, mature men embrace their responsibilities and take charge over them. Instead of trying to avoid them or pretend they don’t exist, they tend to make sure that they are on top of everything they need to do, knowing fully well that those responsibilities are theirs’.
5. THEY ARE NOT SCARED TO START THEIR OWN FAMILIES.
Not every man wants to settle down and have children, a mature man do not run or get scared when he hears about all his friends having families and children. In fact, a mature man will be excited at the sight of little kids running around him, mature men are never pushed into having families of their own, they go for it without being told.
6. THEY DON’T LIVE FOR THE MOMENT.
You’ll quite agree with me that you’ve told at one point or the other to live for the moment and allow tomorrow fend for itself or not to worry about what tomorrow brings, some call it Yolo, you only live once. When a man is mature enough, he realizes that being reckless is not the best way to live, in as much as it’s okay enjoy life today, mature men take the future into full consideration while living for the moment,they also make plans for tomorrow or should I say “save for the rainy days”.
which of the above do you find yourself doing? Do you see yourslf as one who’s mature enough? Share your thoughts with us in the comment box below.